Paying and rewarding kids

Points System vs Allowance: Which Works Better for Kids?

How a points-based reward system compares with a weekly allowance, and how to set point values and reward levels your family can sustain.

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Quick answer

A fixed allowance is simple and teaches budgeting, but it is not tied to effort. A points system links rewards directly to completed work, lets you reward non-money goals like lessons or experiences, and gives children a visible record of what they earned. Many families use points for earning and convert them to money or rewards at set levels.

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How a traditional allowance works

The child gets a set amount each week, often regardless of chores. It is predictable and good for learning to budget, but it does not reward extra effort.

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How a points system works

Each job or commitment has a point value. When a parent approves the work, points are added to the child's balance. Points can be saved toward reward levels the family sets, such as a book, a lesson, a day out, or money.

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Setting point values

Base points on effort and time, not on how much you dislike doing the job. A simple scale helps:

  • Quick jobs (under 10 minutes): 1 to 3 points
  • Standard jobs (10 to 30 minutes): 5 to 10 points
  • Big projects or new skills: 15 points or more
  • Weekly commitments kept every day: a bonus at the end of the week

04

Setting reward levels

Decide what points can become before children start earning, and write it down. Clear levels prevent arguments and teach children to plan. Review the levels every few months as children grow.

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Keeping a permanent record

Children trust a system when they can see every point they earned and spent. A written or digital ledger that cannot be quietly changed makes the system feel fair.

Key takeaways

  • Allowance teaches budgeting. Points tie reward to effort.
  • Base point values on time and effort.
  • Agree on reward levels before earning starts.

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